I’m still fucking KJ. Like really fucking KJ. Like almost every day. As in, we see each other on my lunch break from my regular job and have sex, and sometimes again that same night after I’m off from the other job. It’s messy (the situation not the sex) and exhilarating and of course, toxic.
With CS, it was a different type of chemistry. We had extreme chemistry but there was also a mental connection. With KJ, it’s just pure animal attraction. He’s hot and charming and just watching him interact with customers is enough for me to know that I’m going to have to have him that night. I can’t even say KJ and I are friends with benefits or fuck buddies. Our relationship, or rather lack of one, is comprised of fucking and fighting. CS used to tell me that I’m emotionally distant. KJ says the same, as he’s an open book but he does not know a lot about me yet.
We spent our first night together last weekend. I took him to my other regular Friday night bar (which I swore I’d never take another guy, but since we’re not together I assumed it was okay). TM was there from out of town and I told him to come on as I wanted to see him. I talked to him and KJ made the scene of “you’re not my girl, you’re not my property, go for it if you want.” The night wore on and KJ got more and more jealous. We got into it of course. Then went to the parking lot and had amazing make up sex. We decided to spend the night together and he whispered in my ear “I think I’m ready” as we were falling asleep. I didn’t respond and he made the comment that there was his answer on how I felt.
After my no answer, he was standoffish the next day and night. Made snide comments. Yet we still had sex. It was the same on Sunday. After so much togetherness, I was grateful for a break on Monday, but it gave me too much time to think. Tuesday came and we went to our after work bar at 5. We had a LOT of liquor. By 10 PM, we were screaming at each other across the patio. I was crying. I called him an egotistical asshole. He told me to stop acting like a crazy bitch. Which in turn, caused me to act like a crazy bitch and my coworker had to carry me outside. KJ told me all I was to him was an easy fuck. I told him at least I was good for other things too. By 1 AM, we were holding hands and he was telling me to chill, he loved me. I’ve never had a screaming altercation in a bar before. I was so embarrassed that I never wanted to return.
Last night, I brought my boys to my restaurant. This was the second time he’d met them but it warmed my heart after coming back from the bathroom and see him sitting in the booth with them showing them magic tricks. He nuzzles me with his beard as I’m leaving, and tells me to meet him at 6PM tonight. I’m nervous to see if he remembers or shows. This is the first time we’ve ever made plans without it being spontaneous…….
This is an extreme roller coaster ride. Dangerous, and damn it’s fun. Except this ride comes with no seatbelts. And no rules.